Monthly Archives: August 2019

Aug 20

What Signs Our Loved Ones in Spirit Use to Get Our Attention

By heaven | The Psychic Blog

I had such a good response from last week’s blog entry, I’ve decided to make it at least a weekly entry for a while. One of the requests I received when asking for topics that people would like to read about, was what signs can loved ones use to get our attention.

First, I’d like to say that the length of time someone has been in spirit makes no difference. It could be a day, a month, a year, or many years. In the spirit realm, time does not exist in the manner in which we deal with it or view it here. Another thing that has come up is the fact that they seem to be able to be multiple places, or with multiple people at the same time, (again, that’s because time doesn’t exist where they are). Time is really a “construct” that we use in the third dimension. That is a topic for another day.

There was a time I was doing a medium reading for a woman, and her father was coming through for her. He wanted to apologize and ask forgiveness. And while this woman had come for a reading, she was not expecting her father to show up. She was not ready to hear him apologize, nor was she ready to forgive him. She abruptly decided to end the session that day. I explained to her that when I do a reading, I have the ability to use tact when delivering the messages, but I don’t get to choose what messages come through. While I felt very bad for her, I knew I had to deliver the messages I was getting. A reminder, when we forgive someone, whether they are in spirit, or alive in this dimension now, that forgiveness is more about us, than it is about them. And just because you forgive someone, doesn’t mean that you then must hang around with them. And if they are in spirit and coming to you repeatedly, you can ask them to leave. Forgiveness, especially when someone is in spirit, is about giving you peace, nothing more, nothing less. Although, your forgiveness to someone in spirit does help them move to the next lesson.

Now, for the signs those in spirit use to get your attention. A loved on will come through with their same personality that you knew, especially, when coming through a medium in a reading type of situation. But they don’t always just come through a medium. I encourage people to pay attention to the signs they get. I find that in spirit they use all of our senses. And the ones they like to use the most are the ones that will get your attention. In spirit, it does take some practice. The number one easiest for at their disposal is manipulating electrical current. A spirit can cause electrical items to go on and off by themselves. A light flickering, a tv changing channels; playing a song on the radio. We have even seen it where something will be completely unplugged from an outlet, and it comes on. Now, that one might frighten a few people. One of the biggest reasons people become unnerved by spirit interaction is because of the way it is displayed in “entertainment”. I mean for the most part, in movies or tv shows, they depict them as angry or wanting to do harm, to pay someone back. The instances where this is the case is far more rare than it has ever been depicted in shows. I’m not saying never, but I’m saying rare.

Let’s say you had a grandpa who smoked a pipe, and it was cherry tobacco, well, he may make you smell that pipe when there is absolutely no one else around that’s doing that. Or cigarette smoke, or a perfume or cologne that is specific to that person. A smell from something cooking. I remember once I was home alone, my husband had gotten up and gone to work. Well, it’s like 4 a.m., and I’m smelling a good ole country breakfast cooking, bacon, biscuits, and the works. I get up and go downstairs to see what’s going on, and no one was home, and my husband hadn’t even made coffee that morning. So, they even use cooking smells. Now, as a medium, I’ve even had the experience of tasting certain things, when doing a reading for someone. That’s not always fun, if you don’t like certain foods.

Back to the electrical current, there was once when I’m lying in bed and it’s pitch dark in the room and the overhead light came on. I started to get up to turn it off, and when I put my feet on the floor, the light went back off. Because I’m a medium, and this was early on in these types of experiences, I shared everything with my husband. He’s always been very supportive, and never thought I was just making it up, or losing my mind. Well, maybe he thought I was losing my mind, but never said so.. Just kidding. The very next night at around midnight we are laying in the bed and the light comes on again. He was half asleep, you know that state where you are almost completely out, but would notice a light coming on in a pitch dark room. He says, why did you turn the light on? I said, I haven’t moved. So, it’s his turn to get up and turn the light off, feet hit the floor and like clockwork, the light goes back off. “See, I told you.”

Through the years we have dealt with a lot of paranormal activity of this nature. I have set boundaries, so as not to be overwhelmed by it all. And anyone that has lived in our home, be it a child, or a friend visiting, just has to adjust. It’s the nature of my work, so we have spirits coming and going all the time.

I always tell people you can set boundaries, and you have a right to declare those boundaries and have them respected. In my years of dealing with spirit, I’ve only encountered a few things that made me uncomfortable. The very first time was before I even really knew I was a medium. We had gone to Harper’s Ferry, and when driving home ended going through Burkittsvile, Maryland where The Blair Witch Project had been filmed. It was again in the middle of the night, and I felt the temperature of the room drop to what felt like 30 degrees. It was cold and there was a breeze. I opened my eyes to see a parade of spirits going through the room. It just felt uncomfortable to me. I intuitively knew to declare, “This house is protected by the White Light of Christ, and every one in it is protected. You are not welcome here, and you must leave.” They left as quickly as they came and the temperature normalized. Never fear spirit. Without a physical body, what they can do is limited, and if they are un-evolved, they have a tendency to feed on negative emotions, be that fear, anger, worry, or hatred. It’s like giving them a shot of adrenaline.

For the most part when spirit shows up, it’s because they have a connection with you, someone in the house, the house, or even a piece of furniture or used clothing. So, be mindful of that when shopping for antiques, or used clothing. You should clear the energy if you purchases things like that. This can be done with white sage.

Our loved ones like to play music for us. Let’s say you’re listening to a radio station that play top 40 songs, and now all of the sudden they play something from the ’60s that was a favorite song of a loved one, and that person is the first thing pops into your mind. Then that song is from them. While you may not be able to hear their thoughts, consciously, they can hear yours when you are thinking of them. You can acknowledge them through thought or speaking out loud to them. And I’ve had people ask, by speaking to them, am I keeping them from moving on. Well, as much power as we do have, that is not one of them. You cannot keep a loved from moving on.

Spirit likes to use the animal kingdom as well to get our attention. A favorite is butterflies, dragonflies, and birds. But let’s say your loved one liked snakes, you may even have a snake show up for you. Don’t worry they’re not going to send you a poisonous one.

People think when they have a dream about a loved one, it’s just a dream. Well, I can tell you they really like to visit in dreams because that’s the time when our logical mind is shut down, and they can get through to us easiest. So, if you have loved ones showing up in your dreams, remember, that’s not just a dream, it’s a visit. I’ve had a number of people tell me they tell the loved one, but you died. Actually, the only thing that died is the body, not the person. That’s the eternal part, the spirit, the immortal part of us all that does on.

Signs come in many forms, and if you are paying attention you will get those signs whether you are awake or asleep.

I hope you enjoyed this particular entry. If you’d like to set up a reading to get clarity in a life situation, or to connect with a loved one in spirit you can call or text 914 620 5776, or email my assistant Be sure to visit our other pages at

Aug 13

How to Protect Against Negative Energy

By heaven | The Psychic Blog

It’s been a long time since I’ve added to my blog. I’ve personally, been going through my own shift, and graduation to the next level of my awakening. One of the things that I found necessary and helpful was to be to myself. While there is a big part of the journey on this path to AWAKENING can be walked with other like-minded people, there is a part where you must do it alone and go very deep within.

When deciding to start writing again, I asked for subjects that people feel would be beneficial. One that was requested numerous time was “How to Protect Against Negative Energy”. The place where I ask for requests like this on my facebook fan page, Heaven Calling Earth (

There are many type of negative energy that can be protected against. Actually, any and all negative energy can be protected against, but we first should identify the sources of the negative energy and what works best in each situation. Our beliefs play into what these negative energies may be.

Let’s start with just a regular person that you’re friends, acquaintances with, co-worker, relative, or some random person you meet. You know the type of person, one who has a problem for every solution. They never have a positive thing to say. “Why is this happening to me? My life is crap. I don’t know why I’m always sick. I can’t catch a break.” While these types of people are not necessarily aware of it, they are creating their own realities with all the negative talk. And if you’re around them, they hook into a positive person, and just like a battery has a positive end and a negative end, it will eventually drain you. Becoming aware that this has an impact on the positive person, you must do things to protect yourself. One way is to limit the amount of time you are around a person who is like this, and that’s not always an option. Remember, in the bible where it says, And God said, “Let there be Light, and there was Light.” In other “words” Words have power. Constantly speaking in the negative creates more of the same. Keep your words positive, and be mindful of negative thinking, because that thinking become your words, which become your reality. Now, if it someone you are around who is negative speaking, you may be able to plant a seed with them about their words, but more often than not, it’s a way of life for the individual, and they have to want to change, that’s on them. First line is to plant the seed of what their negative words create. You can point them in the direction of Dr. Norman Vincent Peale and The Power of Positive Thinking. He was most definitely a pioneer and leader in becoming aware of the power of our thinking and our words. Another good source is The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. The movie is good as well. The next level to me on this is The Law of Attraction, and there are many books about this subject and by this name, but I prefer the one authored by Esther and Jerry Hicks, as well as Ask and it Shall Be Given. A more recent addition to this collection of examples of what positive thinking and words do is The Magic Mala by Bob Olson. And I believe this covers words and thoughts quite thoroughly.

Next in the line-up of negative energy to be protected from is: when someone is attacking you with their negative energy or words. Some call this a psychic attack, but there are people who don’t care for the term “psychic”. When you think about it, what it really is, is an attack on your psyche. So when you think of it this way, you can understand it a little bit better. First, while I do recommend to people to take the Four Agreements approach, (book by Don Miguel Ruiz), “What others think of you is none of your business.” Unfortunately, we all care what others think of us, and when someone is attacking us whether it is directly, or by gossiping to others, it does indeed, have an impact. One of the things I know that works is using crystals. Crystals of of the earth, and when used properly can be very powerful tools. So, let’s go over the types of crystals that can be used for this purpose. First, is hematite. Hematite is a black/grayish color, and shiny. It absorbs toxic emotions, and can also be used for a person who has migraine headaches. The size of the stone is not the most important aspect. All of the crystals can be used in their raw or polished form, just make sure they are genuine crystals. All are also available in the form of jewelry to be worn. The next stone is kyanite, a blue stone with white striations in it. A very powerful crystal which can be grounding, and helps to align you. No need to recharge it each month as it does not absorb. One other stone for this is black tourmaline, this crystal actually will reflect the negative energy back to where it came from. So if someone is intentionally targeting you, it acts as a reflective mirror and send it back to it’s origin. You see stones can be used for something other than throwing them at people. (A little sarcastic humor.)

Now, let’s move onto attachment or paranormal type of negative energy. Some of you may be familiar with the astral plane, other may not. It’s the next level up from the third dimension which is what our “physical eyes” can see. The astral is lower fourth dimension, but just out of visibility. The veil between here and that realm or dimension is thinning, and more and more people are having experiences that were once limited to people of either a mental illness, or a psychic and medium type vision. While on that, I will mention, that many people who have previously been diagnosed as being “mentally ill or paranoid schizophrenic” are many times going through a shift, and are actually seeing and hearing into the astral plane. The paranoia comes in when you have “lower level” disincarnate being communicating with them and they don’t know how to stop it, or how to move through that stage of the experience. And if you do a little research, you will find that the number of people having these types of experiences are drastically increasing. Depending on your beliefs a person can think it’s a demon, an alien, a deceased person who has become stuck, and this is not an all inclusive list of what someone may define it as. What you believe it to be may dictate how you handle it though. No matter what you believe it to be, you should try to avoid FEAR, as this feeds this type entity, it’s food for their energy, so to speak. Actually, all negative emotions feed, fear, worry, anxiety, anger, and hatred. Each person needs to know that you have POWER and Control over you space and your body. And you can require that whatever entity or attachment must obey the Universal Law of your Sovereignty when you claim it. Remember, when going to others and telling them what’s going on, what they advise is going to come through the filter of their own beliefs and experiences. Recently, I had the occasion to help a gentleman who was experiencing this type of “attachment”. He had gone to a priest who had told him it was demonic. To say this scared the crap out of the guy is putting it mildly. And for anyone to hear that, and especially if they have strong religious ties and beliefs can make this type of situation that much more difficult to deal with. Now, here is where I have to put in a disclaimer: I have nothing against religion. I was raised in the baptist church beliefs (however, I have since expanded by beliefs). My gifts that I use to help people are from God. I’m guided and protected, have read the Bible. For this particular guy, I went over him what the voice was saying to him. And that particular time what “it” was doing was quoting the Bible, and different religious text. I asked him if “it” was asking him to harm anyone, or himself. And it was not. So, I assured him that it was demonic. Things had very difficult for him, as there were times when the voice would just take over, and his personality would change, as would his voice. Let’s say the entity wanted to take a stroll around and be in charge. This made it very difficult for him to hold a job, and caused him to be hospitalized on several occasions. In most instances being hospitalized with this type of thing going on they put you on antipsychotic medications, which never stopped it for this gentleman. The doctors were dumbfounded, as they tried all the “medications” at their disposal, to no avail. In many cases, these antipsychotics will stope the voices and the visions. But can bring on their own set of side effects. None of it worked on him. I’m going to say because his higher-self has an agreement with this “entity” to walk through this life to learn certain things. This all manifested for him after a car accident. After working with Bill (not his real name), for quite some time, he is more at peace with his “companion”. Bill is not does not want his “companion” to leave. Otherwise, he would be able to say to him, “You are not welcome here, I am protected by the White Light of Jesus Christ, and you must leave.” And because of that Universal Law of Sovereignty over your physical body, the entity MUST leave. Even though people are “afraid”, sometimes they are comfortable with these attachments. Also, you can call on the Archangel Michael who is the Archangel of Protection to help you.

This reminds me of a mom who little girl was dealing with what seemed to be a negative and dark energy at night. And it would always show up when she was alone in her bedroom. The little six year old would rarely be able to stay in her bedroom. Mom brought her daughter to me and we had a talk about the Archangel Micheal, and the White Light of Jesus to protect her. Understanding that this negative energy was very real to this girl, and she was not making it up made a lot of difference to her. She left my office feeling very empowered. Her mom let me know that after our talk she was able to sleep in her own bedroom, with only an occasional visit to mom and dad’s room, for cuddling.

You can see why it’s so important not to FEAR and know that you have the Power. I think of that line from The Wizard of OZ, “Why, Dorothy, you’ve had the Power all along.” If we actually understood how Powerful we really are, we would never FEAR or worry about anything.

I hope that this helps in addressing how to protect against negative energy. This is not intended to be all-inclusive, in other words, there are other ways to protect against negative energy, but these are a few of the ways. If you would like to set up an appointment for a reading, please email; call or text my assistant at 914 620 5776.

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