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Jun 26

Spiritual Awakening and Attachments

By heaven | The Psychic Blog

  We are going through a time of very big vibrational shift.  The last time we had a shift of these proportions was back in the time Christ.  So we’ve at the same frequency for, roughly, around 2000 years.  It can be called a number of things, a shift in vibration, a shift in consciousness, an awakening.  No matter what you all it, there’s no question it’s a change in the way we see things, hear things, and feel them.

    I would describe it as a total change in the way we do things. Also, notably, the way it is manifesting in people’s lives.  Let’s start with the way it is playing out publicly.  First thing would be how things are being amplified. Think about when music plays on a radio and we turn the volume up so that it’s louder. Well, the things we are seeing in public eye, media and other methods of deliver are being “amplified”, turned up, if you will.  There’s a polarization of issues.  Years ago we would have a mass shooting, maybe once a year.  Now, we are having one it would seem at least every few months, and sometimes every couple of weeks.

   What about issues of politics?  Don’t they seem to be getting louder and larger to you. The issues that divide us seem to be shoved in our faces more and more, where it’s a constant barrage. It matters not what the issues are, political views, race, sexuality, religion, they are all being polarized to shove our differences down our throats.  These are nothing more than distractions.  If we are in fear we can’t possibly focus on our own personal spiritual awakening.  Make now mistake about it, awakening spiritually is a big thing, and it will change the way the entire Globe of Earth functions.

  One of the first things that was a part of this was the entire mortgage meltdown. People losing their homes, and more often than not, wrongfully. I mean most people were put in loans that they should never have been put in.  What was the driving force for that?  Greed, pure and simple.  And when it was discovered that the bankers were the ones who caused the entire meltdown, was there anything done to fix it?  Only for show.  This meltdown was caused intentionally.  If people are concerned about losing their homes, again, they won’t be focused on a spiritual awakening.

  These things are about keeping the populace DISTRACTED, frustrated, and busy.  Then we have things like Ebola, mass shootings, race issues.  What things are being used to distract us, technology, reality TV, health scares, polarized issues of hatred, terrorist attacks. I’m not saying that these are not concerns, but when they are manipulated, contrived and caused, they are just being used to keep us busy with distractions.

    When it’s not enough to keep people distracted with losing their material possession, which we as humans have a big habit of becoming attached to, then we move onto the attachments to Beliefs.  And I don’t know whether you realize it or not, but getting people to let go of the attachment to certain beliefs is an incredible feat in and of itself.  People are more attached to their beliefs than they ever could be any material possession.

  Why is this an important aspect of the Awakening?  We are in a time when our beliefs about what is, what was, and what shall be is being turned upside down, inside out, and backwards.  I believe you could easier pry a baby from the jaws of a lion than you could certain beliefs that people who hold.  We are afraid of letting lose of certain beliefs.

   What if the beliefs we hold and the thought we have are what manifest our reality? How about what we focus on is a magnet for what we draw into ourselves? If everyone comes to this belief then no political or religious organization could have a hold on any person who knows this.  That’s a scary thought to some people who are power hungry.  Power isn’t always about money, though it is a lot of time, it’s about CONTROL.  When you control what people think they can and cannot have, and how they get it, then you control the people, and therefore control the money.  It’s the natural order of things.  Think of it like this, we no longer need anyone else to solve our issues, because we can solve them or create them ourselves.  You’ve heard of the Law of Attraction, and The Secret.  Why do you think it was such a Secret?  Because those in power, be it political or religious, or any other kind of power for that matter, does not want anyone to know this Secret.  But people have slowly been awakening to it.  And now it’s being shoved in our faces full force.

  People are having vivid dreams, feeling anxious, not being able to sleep.  If the dreams are negative, they are about brining up old issues to be healed.  Things we need to let go of, so we can progress in soul growth and awakening.  It’s time for us to let go of attachments, not just attachment to material, but to old beliefs.  I’m not saying we can’t or are not to have material possessions, but don’t let the possessions possess you.  Don’t be attached to it, that it blinds you from what’s really important.  This holds true for our beliefs as well.  Allow them to evolve, allow your truth to grow and expand.  And when you decide to do that, you will let go of the anxiety, the anger, and the hatred.

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May 21

Answers About The Afterlife: Questions About the Spirit World; Discussion Four

By heaven | The Psychic Blog

    In this entry we are moving to the spirit world itself.  The first question is, “What’s the difference between the afterlife, heaven, the here after, the spirit world, and the other side?”  As Bob addresses in this chapter these are terms that some might say mean the same thing, synonyms, if you will. Now, my perception of this might seem a little bit different.  The way I have had it shown to me, is imagine that heaven is like a high rise, there’s entry level, and then you have midlevel, and you can progress up to the penthouse.  How does one progress?  Through soul evolution.  As we incarnate on earth we learn lessons, the way we handle things evolves, hence our soul evolves.  With this evolution comes the ability to go further up in the high rise of heaven.  Always keep in mind those on the upper floors can come down and visit, but those on the lower floors can not visit the higher floors until they evolve to the level.

     Why has no on proven that the afterlife exists? Proving the afterlife is tied to belief systems.  It might be difficult to “prove”, but people can come to a belief and understanding based on their own experiences.  There’s this saying for some there’s no proof that would be enough, and for some there’s  no proof that’s needed.  In other words, if you are dealing someone who cynical, no matter what happens they are not going to believe it.  And for people who have a belief system that it exists, you don’t need to prove it to them.

    What’s it like in the spirit world?  Here is another area where your beliefs play into your experience.  When a person first dies or passes from the earthly plane into the spirit plane, what they hold as hard line beliefs will effect what they encounter when they first arrive.  Some people believe in a transition, some believe in purgatory, some believe we retrain looks of our body as we do on the physical plane.  For those who have strong beliefs in these types of things, it take a period of adjustment, but they will experience exactly what they expect.  Keep in mind there are always loved ones and guides to help with those adjustment times.

    What do we do in the spirit world? There is no one answer that fits for everyone.  Some souls continue their work on soul evolution in the spirit plane before choosing to reincarnate on the earthly plane. At times souls can even study in the spirit world before they decide to come back to earth, that is if they decide to come back, it is a choice.  Coming to earth to learn life lessons is a choice and it’s like taking advanced classes in school, because the work here is harder than in the spirit world, but most believe it is worth it.

     If there is an afterlife, does that mean there is a hell as well?  I agree with Bob’s writing here, in that there is not one in the literal sense of a fire pit.  Again, keep in mind that if your belief system carries that there is one, and you believe you are going there, you will experience for a short period of time until you adjust to the spirit world and get reacquainted and remember that that is a concept used on earth.  On earth our beliefs carry into the spirit world, and not all of them are exact in the way we have come to believe in them on earth.

    Are we judged or punished for our wrongdoings when we arrive in the afterlife?  We do have a life review, to see how we have made certain choices.  Experiencing the other people’s feelings and the ways in which our choices have effected others, but as for punishment, we punish ourselves.  We are given a chance to make different choices, and improve what can be improved upon.

     How do our religious beliefs and practices affect us in the afterlife?  They affect us greatly upon first arrival, but then we adjust and are given an opportunity for our truth to expand.  We realize the difference between religion and spirituality, which by the way go hand-in-hand.  Instead of being so grounded in dogma, we need to be open to the truth expanding like a flower does when it’s growing.

     Which religion is closest to the truth?  They all have a foundation in truth, and all are necessary so we can have certain experiences.  Closest to the truth is relative to what you come to earth to experience.  We are all worshipping the same God, it’s just that we call him different things.

   Can our loved ones hear us in the spirit world?  They most definitely can, and they can see us as well.  With the single thought they know you are thinking of them.  Also they come to visit us, and try to let us know they are around, sometimes through smell, or touch, or manipulating energy.  Always pay attention to the signs and our loved ones will let us know they are there.  Also, you can have contact with them through psychic medium reading.  A psychic medium can hear, see, and feel the loved ones in the spirit realm.  Having a reading with medium can bring peace and healing to those left here on the earthly plane, while the loved ones are in the spirit world.

  I hope this entry finds you well and helps you in some way.  Until next time, Love and Light to you, and pay attention to the signs around you.  If you’d like to set up an appointment for a reading please send an email, pam@heavencallingearth.com, or call 914 620 5776.

May 01

Answers About the Afterlife: Discussion Three, Questions About Death and Dying

By heaven | The Psychic Blog

   We know that the way we think of dying isn’t really dying at all, it’s simply moving to another dimension, if you will.  The spirit plane, or the heavenly realm are two names I personally like to use.  Here on earth we consider it dying because we no longer have a body and are no longer able to see with our “eyes” the person who has “died”.  
  Our soul never dies. We are not humans with a soul, we are souls who are experiencing being human.  There’s a big difference.  Our consciousness is the spirit, or is the soul, and it goes on for ETERNITY. So, what is it that determines when  and how we “die”?  There are so many elements that go into this.  Before we are born, the way I like to explain it, (as it has been shown to me over and over again), we sit down with a “guidance counselor”, an elder,  our team of spirit guides, and we decide what are going to experience in this lifetime.  What are the life lessons we wish to learn? When we decide the lessons, we also make agreements with other souls to experience certain lessons with them.  This is  why we come in contact with some people and we feel a certain magnetism, or draw to that person.  It’s because recognize the soul, even if we don’t actually recognize the person.  It’s that feeling of, I’ve known you forever.  In reality, you have known them forever. We travel in soul groups and we change up the relationships we have the souls, depending on the lessons and the agreements we make prior to incarnating in any given lifetime.  As hard as it may be to imagine, we make choices to experience certain illnesses, or to have certain trauma come into our lives, so we have the experience of it, and see how we handle it.  It’s all about choices that we make and how we handle those things that show up.
  Don’t get weighted down with the idea that only thing we are here to do is learn lessons.  We also incarnate to enjoy life itself.  As you know though, deciding to enjoy it is a personal choice.  I know you’ve probably run across a person or two in your life who is perfectly happy being miserable.  They wouldn’t know how to behave if they didn’t have something to complain about.  That aside, we can as souls decide that we are going to be happy and really enjoy what we have been gifted with. 
 There are souls who are here for the primary purpose of helping other in reaching their goals and life lessons.  This is a reason why soul stays is to help another. Another factor in death and dying is opportunity. There are situations where a death can occur, but a spirit guide steps in and stops it because the souls has other things to accomplish while they are here. I can personally attest to this, because I’ve had a number of time when I’ve walked away from a situation that was surprising.  I will share one with you now just so you can get a feel for what I’m talking about. Back in 1993 I was in an automobile accident.  I was making a left turn out of a shopping center on a very busy local road.  After I looked both ways, I proceeded to make the turn, and a BIG concrete truck that I didn’t see came flying over the hill.  He hit my car in the front (driver’s side) quarter panel.  The car was brand new. We get the car off the road into the shopping center. A state trooper shows up to investigate the accident.  At the moment I wasn’t feeling any pain, was just sort of stunned.  Well, the driver of the concrete truck was pacing back and forth, and very nervous and upset.  He knew how bad the accident could have been.  The driver’s door, mine, was missed with less than twelve inches to spare.  Had he hit the door, I would not be here telling you this story.  Well, I could hear as the trooper was questioning him.  He kept saying, “Something turned the wheel of the truck.  Really, something turned the wheel of the truck. I don’t know what or who it was.”  He was probably coming too fast over the hill, but I was charged because he clearly had the right of way.  But that didn’t happen until after the trooper finished giving him field sobriety tests to be sure he wasn’t under the influence.  The poor guy was so shaken, I really felt bad for him.  Had the car not been brand new it would have been considered totaled by the insurance company.  There was 12,000 worth of damage to the car, and yes, my insurance company cancelled my insurance after the accident. Having experienced a few times in my life where there was Divine intervention, I wasn’t as shocked or as confused as the truck driver.  I knew by this point, I am well protected.  There was a knowing that God has some things planned for me that required me staying on earth for a while.  Don’t get me wrong, I don’t go out here and intentionally put myself in harms way, but this is not by far the only thing I’ve ever been through that I might not have walked away from without those special protections.  
  Another thing that plays into our death and the timing of is is our own free will.  There have many people where the doctors say, oh, he has three months, she has two weeks; only to be proven wrong by the person who is just not ready yet. In the most dire of situations one can have a strong will to live and it override what is a possible out for them.  
People often ask about karma, or the reap what you sow factor.  There is some of that involved in our lives and we can’t minimize it’s effects on our lives. We should all try to live by the rule, do unto others as we would have them do unto us.  I’ve also been asked a number of time if a loved one felt pain during their death.  This is a troubling prospect for many. I’ve been told and shown that when death is imminent, that the spirit guide or loved one there to meet the person, brings them out before the pain can be felt. I’ve also been told they don’t feel fear or anxiety with it.  Sometimes people who have had a near death experience will feel pain when they return to the body, but not during the “death” portion of it. I hope that makes sense to you.  
 
  There are others who wish to know if death is dark and scary. Our beliefs can play a part in what we see when we first arrive on the spirit plane.  This is why we have soul family that meets us, to help us transition to Light.  Once a person transitions they no longer feel the pain of any illness or trauma that they have experienced.  They can, however, feel our sadness and grief.  Our loved ones can visit us in dreams, and they can make their presence known to us during our waking hours.  One thing I have seen over and over again that blocks this is the pain of the person grieving.  We never stop missing our loved ones, but we can allow our pain wall to recede so they can make the connection with us.  Grieving is a process, and it is a very individual thing.  I’ve dealt with people who missed a loved one after they were gone, but they knew that the soul was a very good place so they didn’t have a pain wall at all.  And I’ve seen the other end of the spectrum, where someone had died ten years before and it was as though it had just happened and the person’s pain wall was so high that I could physically feel it.
   I’d like to close this particular discussion with the fact that we are able to communicate with our loved one in spirit.  You can do so through a gifted psychic medium by having  a reading.  But also to let you know that you can communicate directly with your loved ones.  They can hear you when you speak aloud to them, as well as when you think of them. If you get a sign from a loved one, acknowledge it.  We have a tendency to logically explain away the signs they bring us.  If something happens, a song comes on the radio, you smell a certain scent, you see something that was special to a loved one and the first thought that pops into your head is of a specific loved one, just acknowledge that it is from them. When you do this, you will start to see more signs and feel their presence even more.  Remember, we don’t die, we just move to a new location.
Apr 09

Answers About The Afterlife: Discussion Two, The Big Picture

By heaven | The Psychic Blog

     We start this section with some answers about The Big Picture.  What is our purpose in living a life on the human plane/ earth? Before we can get to the afterlife we have to discuss life itself. No matter who you are, you’ve made decision and choice to come to earth to have a human experience.  The purpose for that is learn “life lessons”. So, with that being the case that means we actually have “life” before we have a “life on earth”. We are eternal beings. Bob covers this subject quite well in Part One of the book.

     Since we are eternal beings our consciousness is already alive, if you will, in the spirit realm. Our souls are eternal. Coming to earth to have a human experience and learn life lessons is part of the eternalness. The way that it has been shown to me through meditations and experiences in psychic readings and medium readings is that in a manner we all have a team that works with us, our sprit guides. Before we incarnate on earth, we have a meeting with our “team” and decide what life lessons we are going to attempt to learn in the upcoming lifetime. We also decide who we are going to work on those lessons with, our soul group. Souls in each group have agreements that they will experience certain things together in hopes of evolving from those lessons.
    If you think of those lessons like classes you take when you go school, you may not get an A in the class, but that doesn’t mean you didn’t attend. Each of us learns in our own unique way because we are different. Even if there appear to be things that are negative experiences, that doesn’t mean that we are not getting anything out of it. And while we plan the lessons, it doesn’t mean we will arrive at the desired goal in the end. One of the reasons for that is because first, once we arrive on earth, we begin to promptly forget what we planned before arrival. As our souls evolve, we start remembering that purpose for our trip to earth. Once that is remembered we start looking at our experiences in a whole new light. I can only speak from my own personal experience, it makes it a little bit easier to navigate the lessons. Sometimes having these kinds of lessons coming up before you remember that’s why you’re here, makes it easier to not make good choices.  And I say not good choices, because just because they are not the exact right choices, doesn’t necessarily mean they are totally bad either. As long as we learn something from the choices, then they are serving a purpose. Let me give you something of an example; let’s say you are a young child and you see a glass in front of the fireplace, and it’s pretty and fascinating so you go over and touch it; while that’s not necessarily a good choice, you do learn very quickly that it’s not a good choice to touch the glass in front of the fireplace because it’s hot and you can get burned.  I realize this is an over simplification but one that I feel will help to make the point.  And don’t we wish that all our choices were as simple as not touching the glass in front of the fireplace.
     Next is the discussion about the soul and the spirit. I love Bob’s description of the differences.  One I have often used is the Holy Trinity, God the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. While I know that not everyone is of Christian faith, most do understand the reference.  I use this reference to explain that the Father portion of our soul remains in the spirit realm or Heaven, at all times, while the Son portion, is the part of us that incarnates onto the earth for human experiences, and the Holy Sprit is the part that brings this all together, the intuitive side that helps our higher self, the portion that remains in spirit to communicate with human incarnated part.  This is the reason that we don’t ever have to be concerned that if a loved one passes and decides to incarnate again before we get back to spirit that we will miss each other in passing.  The higher self part is always there and always recognizable to the other souls in our group.
     Defining God, now that’s a tall order. We do have a tendency to want to define him in terms of being human, you know, two arms, two legs, physical body kind of thing.  And let’s not forget we also like to attach human emotions to God, anger, vengefulness, love, we like to think that God has the same emotions that we do. God is the Source of all that is, was and ever shall be. Through the years the manner in which it has been shown to me is that when God said he made man in his image, what he was doing was giving us the power of creation of our own realities. Now, that’s a mouthful and what some might say is something of arrogant statement. One reason we like to reject this concept is because if that’s the case then we must take responsibility for the things that come into our lives, no matter what they are, good, bad, indifferent. When if we keep God as human like Power, we can lay all the responsibility for what is right and wrong in our lives at his feet. We can blame God or thank him without regard to what is in our lives is something that we have attracted by our own manifestation.  It’s so much easier to do it that way. But what I’ve found through the years is when we recognize that God has given us this gift of manifestation and taking responsibility for what is showing up, that is when we start to consciously attract the things we desire, instead of waiting for some outside force to bring us what we want.

   Finally, the best way to understand the afterlife.  Really, the afterlife is the before life, in other words, we are eternal.  Before we have an life on earth we are in the spirit plane. So it’s life before life, life after life after life. It’s tough to put it into a human concept. We are eternal beings living forever in one plane or dimension or another, it’s just while we are on this plane or in this dimension we don’t remember the others. With the vibrational shift that is currently going on, that is changing. We are starting to remember things that we’ve had locked away inside of us while we were are here.

   Let’s take a few days to discuss the Big Picture and then read Part Two, Questions About Death and Dying. In the meantime if you’d like to schedule a psychic reading or a medium reading, send us an email or call. 

Mar 24

Answers About The Afterlife: Discussion One

By heaven | The Psychic Blog

After a great deal of thought on how to handle our discussion about Bob Olson’s book, Answers About the Afterlife, I thought it best to do it through a blog and a link to Facebook for the Heaven Calling Earth fan page.  We are going to test this out and see if it works in the way we want it to.

Introduction, Also titled The Foundation of This Book.  Everything we do in life has to have a foundation.  The foundation is the groundwork for how we are going to view anything in life.  It’s not only just what we experience in the moment that determines our view or outlook, it’s the sum total of our those experiences that bring us to the conclusions we draw.  So with that said, let’s discuss Bob’s foundation for the book.

Bob Olson was a private investigator before he became an Afterlife Investigator.  Well, I would say that gives him some qualifications for investigating. And as he mentions in his first paragraph, “none of us have all the answers”.  The fact that we have some of the answers is a blessing in and of itself.  Then we have the statement that what we have is “true, but not accurate.”  I’ve never heard it put quite that way, but it makes sense. The way I’ve often explained this is that our truth starts as a small seed, which turns into a stem, which can turn into a bloom, which then grows and expands.  Our truth, or the truth about the afterlife can only be understood based on what we have as that foundation, which is oftentimes our own experiences.  Some are willing to accept other people’s experiences as part of their own truth.  And there are some individuals who will not even accept their own firsthand encounters as true.  They are not healthy skeptics, they are cynics.  “True, but not accurate” is based on our own human understanding, which can differ very much from what goes on in the spirit realm.  Physical versus spiritual realm can be the same but very different at the same time.

We are going through vibrational shift right now and the veil between us and the spirit realm is getting thinner and thinner. You might say we are bumping up against each other, like a parallel dimension. As the veil thins more and more people are seeing these parallel dimensions.  There are lower level dimensions and higher ones than we are.  The lower ones have a lower “frequency” if you will and the higher ones, of course, are a higher “frequency”. Lower ones are fueled and ruled by lower energies, anger, hatred, violence, addictions, fear.  The higher dimensions are the exact opposite, they have love, compassion, empathy and the like.  Our dimension houses both, so to speak.  We are in a time when we can choose to go to the higher level, stay where we are, or down. It’s a personal choice.

As an investigator Bob decided he wanted to find out all he could about the afterlife and those who claimed to be able to communicate with people that were in the afterlife.  He has vetted, tested and tried psychics, psychic mediums, animal communicators, channelers, and every possibly type of reader that there is.  After doing so, I would say that as in court, with this much experience, he would be considered and qualified as an expert on the subject matter.

There are so many aspects of the afterlife that he became familiar with.  Here we just thought, okay, you die and you go to heaven or hell.  Well, it’s just not that simple.  He has quite aptly laid twenty-two different ways and things to be understood about the spirit realm. I’ve personally had experience with a number of theses things and I look forward to discuss them with you throughout the journey through this book.

If you have questions or thoughts about this section of the book, please post here, or on the Facebook page.

Feb 10

Suicide, Right or Wrong, Heaven or Hell.

By heaven | The Psychic Blog

     As a psychic medium I’ve “spoken” with souls who have crossed from all kinds of earthly deaths. I’m not sure at this point if we missed any.  I’ve communicated with those that have crossed from accidents, automobile, planes, getting shot, overdosing from drugs and alcohol, as well as those who have had terminal illnesses, and then those that just passed from natural causes.  No matter the way the death occurs it’s always difficult for those left behind. They are always left with a large whole in their life where the person who passed was.

  Today, I’m going to talk about suicide. It’s a difficult topic, and in my opinion it’s one of the hardest on those left behind. Not only do they deal with the loss, but there are times when there is a lot of guilt associated with the survivors of suicide.  There are those who believe that suicide is a coward’s way out.  I don’t follow that thinking, as I know from speaking with many who have committed suicide at the time of the incident that is not what’s going on.  Then we have those that want to know if it’s right or it’s wrong, or do you go to heaven or hell when you commit suicide.  What I’m going to share with you here today is the view and opinion I’ve come to have from years of connecting with those that have taken their lives, or been a part of it, either intentionally or by accident.  I’ve had souls come through to me that have died of an overdose and there were questions as to whether or not the person did it intentionally. Actually, I’ve communicated with both, those who have done it intentionally, and those that it was a complete accident.  Either way there are still life lessons that weren’t completed or learned. As we know, people that become addicted to substances are looking for that escape from what it is a difficult situation for them, or the euphoric feeling they get when on the substances.  Unlike the addict, a person who decides to commit suicide, feels completely trapped, alone (even if they are in a room full of people), and they feel there is no way out of the “hell” they are experiencing.  Honestly, they are not usually thinking through the effect it will have on their loved ones, or even themselves.  Of course, some are angry with someone and think that by taking their own life they will punish the person they are angry with. Again, this is a situation where the mind is so muddled that they can’t think through what the end result will be.
    It’s my belief that people who have a terminal illness and decide to take their own lives are in a whole different category altogether. That thinking goes along with, I want to be in control, and do it the way that I can leave on my own terms. To date, I have not yet communicated with someone who took this way out, so I cannot give any information on this one way or the other.  However, I will not say that it’s  wrong or right, and definitely not cowardly thinking.
     I would like to say that those who have lost a loved one and consider suicide so they can join their loved one sooner rather than later, this is not the answer and  you will not get the result you are trying to achieve by taking your own life.  I’ve been shown this to be the case because souls who commit suicide have special work to do.  When a soul cuts their human life short, the lessons they have come to learn have not been completed.
 
     What happens when a person commits suicide?  There is what I will call a welcoming soul, the soul or souls that meet the person transitioning to the spirit realm.  The person who has committed suicide is met by a soul or souls to help them come over.  These souls are others who have committed suicide.  It is part of the work they must do before they come back and complete their contract.  The “welcoming soul/souls” help the person come over and give them a tour so to speak.  Let them rest and get used to their new environment.  They go through reviews to show them how they could have done things differently, and how there were options that could have resolved the dilemma and the pain they were in.    The person sees how his actions have impacted those left behind, their pain, the upset, the void he has left.

     Once acclimated and the soul has had time to rest and understand fully what his/her actions have caused then they go to work.  There are two jobs in particular that I’ve been shown over and over again that they do, which helps them in their return to complete what they came for to begin with.  The first is acting as part of the “welcoming team”, and the second is to work as a spirit guide for people considering suicide.  Now, as you can imagine this is a very difficult job.  Trying to get through to a person who is contemplating suicide is very difficult.  Why is it difficult?  The biggest and primary reason is because the person who is considering suicide has a pain wall that is very difficult to penetrate.  The spirit guide will try to get through directly to the person, and even try to go through others around the person, friends, family, anyone who the spirit guide thinks they can make the connection with.  There are occasions when it works, and the person doesn’t go through with it.  Then, of course, there are times when there is no getting through to the person and they go through with it.

     Souls that have a hand in their lives ending early, such as accidental overdose and things of this nature fall into the same category, and will have a little extra work so that they understand addictions, and can come back and try to do it without falling into that trap again.

     The opinions are ones that I have formed through years of communicating with those who have crossed over and being shown over and over again how they transition and what they go through.  Please, remember the hell they go through is before they commit suicide, but it does put other things in play that they need to resolve.  A good book to read is Conversations With The Spirit World by Lysa Mateu.

    If you’d like to set an appointment for a reading to communicate with a loved one you are missing in heaven please visit, www.heavencallingearth.com or email pam@heavencallingearth.com.

Dec 08

Defining Love!

By heaven | The Psychic Blog

Over the past couple of months I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting about love and it’s meaning.  What we are supposed to do with it? If it is real? If it is conditional or unconditional?  There are so many relationships with love and about love, I thought this would be a very good topic to cover in this entry.  First I’d like to give the definition as I found it on Google.

love
ləv/
noun
noun: love; plural noun: loves
  1. 1.
    an intense feeling of deep affection.
    “babies fill parents with intense feelings of love”
    synonyms: deep affection, fondnesstendernesswarmthintimacyattachment,endearmentMore

    antonyms: hatred
    • a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone.
      “it was love at first sight”
      synonyms: become infatuated with, give/lose one’s heart to; More

    • a personified figure of love, often represented as Cupid.
      noun: Love
    • a great interest and pleasure in something.
      “his love for football”
      synonyms: liking of/for, enjoyment of, appreciation of/for, taste for, delight for/in, relish of, passion for, zeal for, appetite for, zest for,enthusiasm for, keenness for, fondness for, soft spot for, weakness for, bent for, proclivity for, inclination for, disposition for, partiality for, predilection for, penchant for
      “her love for fashion”
    • affectionate greetings conveyed to someone on one’s behalf.
      synonyms: best wishes, regards, good wishes, greetings, kind/kindest regards
      “my mother sends her love”
    • a formula for ending an affectionate letter.
      “take care, lots of love, Judy”
  2. 2.
    a person or thing that one loves.
    “she was the love of his life
    synonyms: beloved, loved one, love of one’s life, deardearest, dear one, darling,sweetheartsweetangelhoneyMore

    • BRITISHinformal
      a friendly form of address.
      “it’s all right, love”
    • BRITISHinformal
      used to express affectionate approval for someone.
      noun: a love
      “don’t fret, there’s a love”
  3. 3.
    (in tennis, squash, and some other sports) a score of zero; nil.
    “love fifteen”


     Now, reading through these definitions that I found on Google, this is quite extensive.  Love as defined on the dictionary can be quite different than “love” as we humans use the word.  People associate love by what they have learned love to me.  Let’s start with children and seeing their moms and dads and they way they are are with them mom/child; dad/child, mom and dad/ children, and mom/dad with each other.  Not all couples have a “healthy” loving relationship.  And that goes back to their childhood and what they have learned loved to be.  This makes a cycle within families.  One of two things happen, they choose to show love as their parents did with them, or they choose to do it differently because they feel their parents’ love was not real love.  After all, the first relationships we see that are supposed to have love are the ones I’ve just mentioned.  They are what defines love for us.



     What is love supposed to be? Keep in mind this is my opinion and what I’ve learned through my life.  Love is an emotion that is deep feeling of affection and endearment for another person.  While we can have a love for a thing or a place, I will not be addressing those in this blog.  The way we love our parents is different from how we love our children, and our partners, whether those partners be husband/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend, friends.  So there are so many different kinds of relationships.  Of course, the best love is the real kind, the kind.  Unfortunately, not all love is real, even though some may think it is.  A real love, is the kind that makes you feel as though you can’t live without the other person, you can’t breathe without them.  A loss of the person, would be horrific.  I’m not saying that you can’t live without them, or that you can’t breathe without them, because we all know that’s not true. What I am saying is that’s what the feelings are.  And the real love is a horrific loss.  Love can, of course, be one sided, but that is truly a tragedy.  To have an intense love for another and not have it returned is beyond sad.



    What is unconditional love vs conditional love?  Unconditional love is a love with absolutely no strings attached?  In other words, you remove your love or hold it back because the other person is not doing something  you want them to, or they are doing something you want them not to do.  Conditional love is has all sorts of strings attached to it.  Let’s use the example of if you don’t change your body size, you need to lose 15 pounds or I just can’t be with you, or you don’t like the same things that I like.  I’m into sports and you’re into nature.  I could no more go play in nature than you could enjoy watching a football game.  There are so many conditions that can be put on love, and most of the time people don’t even realize when they are putting conditions on it.



     Let’s say that a child sees their parents fighting all the time, verbally or physically, the child then associates love with those things.  Let’s say one or the other has a substance abuse issue, whether they stay together or leave over the issue, it is associated with love to that child.  Then when they grow and begin to have relationships they will either mimic it, or  be determined no to relive that in their own life.  What if the parent abuses the child through discipline? Well, we’ve seen time and time again where people repeat this cycle.  It’s used as a defense in child abuse cases too many times to count.  



     You can begin a relationship with an unhealthy love, if it is real love, and then change it to be a healthy unconditional love.  The first thing is that you must recognize that is, indeed, an unhealthy love.  And then try to get your partner to recognize the same, and you work towards making it healthy and unconditional.  Unconditional love is not easy in the beginning, but as you work at it, it becomes easier and second nature.  If you’d like to see an example of true unconditional love, we should look to our pets.  We can yell at them, blame them for having accidents in the house, (when in reality that’s our fault for not being sure they’ve been taken out/ or the litter box is not cleaned), even physically abuse them, and they keep coming back hoping you will love them and accept them.  Now, that’s true unconditional love.



     Some people associate love with the purchasing of gifts and material acquisitions.  If you think about it, love has nothing to do with either.  It’s the opening and giving of one’s self to another, no matter what that relationship is.  It can be friends, loved ones, relatives, husband/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend, and the list goes on.  There can be givers and takers.  One can be totally a giver and the other a total taker.  This kind of love will depend on what the relationship is whether or not it lasts.  Friendships may not, but family relationships may, but even in those sometimes one will walk away from the other.  People that are totally one way or the other will often complain that they are the opposite of what their true nature is.  Keep in mind there has to be a balance in giving and taking in relationships.  If the scales tip too far one way or the other, it may be headed for trouble.


     In closing, I challenge you to look at your relationships and determine what kind of love you have.  And they can be different depending on which kind they are.  In other words, you and your partner may have unconditional love, and you and your mom or dad have something that you consider to be conditional.  The biggest challenge of all is to redefine those that are conditional to make them unconditional, at least on the part that you have control over, and that is your own feelings.
    
     Please visit my website, www.heavencallingearth.com.  If you would like to schedule a psychic reading, or psychic medium reading, please email or call the listed number.

Nov 01

Ask A Psychic

By heaven | The Psychic Blog

Image by permission of Linda Allen Wooten.

As a psychic and a psychic medium I get asked a lot of questions.  Periodically, I work some of those questions into my blog, as they can help others.
Our first question comes from Helen Taft.  How can you become more in tune with the spirit realm?  First and foremost, one of the biggest keys to do meditation.  It’s the number one tool in hearing, seeing and feeling answers, whether those answers are from your spirit guides, guardian angels, loved ones that have crossed over, or answers from God to your prayers.  Second, you must learn to trust what you are getting in signs.  As you get signs, acknowledge them, and don’t use your logical mind to explain them away.
April Hurley wants to know why some really good people have such long and hurtful roads and mountains to climb? Is it karma or their past?  There are many factors that play into reasons why anyone has hard roads and difficult situations to deal with.  Sometimes it would seem that some have it harder than others, and there are those that it appears to have a cake walk.  Before we incarnate on earth, we choose certain life lessons to learn, we even make agreements with other souls who will participate in those lessons.  There are karmic issues that come up for people, and past “punishments” it would seem.  The thing we must all recognize is that when things are going smoothly, we don’t learn a lot of from that.  We do, however, have more of tendency to take a harder look at things when they become difficult.  When a person starts to awaken spiritually, and realize that difficult times means there’s a life lesson involved, they then start to realize sooner and even learn the lessons sooner.  But there are equally as many people who never awaken spiritually, and that does not take away the life lessons, it just means you’re not realizing why you’re going through certain things, and may or may not learn the lesson. If the lesson is not learned, it will continue to come up over and over again.
What’s the difference between spirit guides and guardian angels is the question for Susan Morea.  You might think there is no difference, but in reality there is a difference.  Guardian angels have never incarnated as a human on earth, but they are tasked with guiding and protecting those on earth.  Spirit guides can have incarnated on earth, and some are so evolved that they have not incarnated in a very long time.  Remember, time is a linear thing in this third dimension, it doesn’t apply in the spirit realm.
Catherine Petit has provided a picture with many spirits behind her friend.

How can we contact our spirit guides, and how do you know it’s not our mind just playing tricks on us, asks Sharon Bradford Englerth.  Contact with our spirit guides is for the most part done, or at least started by doing meditations.  You ask to meet your spirit guides, and you learn to see, hear, and feel their presence.  Once you’ve gained a trust of how they feel, what they sound like to you, and even how you see them, you then realize that it’s not your mind.  The mind playing tricks is often mistaken for true guidance, and therefore the guidance is missed out on. After practice of asking questions and getting answers, and learning to trust those answers is something that comes with time.

Robin M. Plante wants to know if we are reunited with loved ones, especially children that pass before the adults.  Some people worry that if we reincarnate that we might miss a loved one, or a child that has gone to heaven before we get there. I’ve been shown over and over again that there is “part” of us that always remains in heaven.  If you understand the Holy Trinity, God the father, the son, and the holy spirit, it is much like this.  There is a higher-self that always remains in heaven.  When a “son”, or portion that incarnates on earth, goes back to heaven, that person/personality, love and all the things that go with that is there to be with and reunited with the loved ones that come to heaven later.  You will know them, and recognize them, as they come to you as the person you knew them to be on earth.

As associated with the death of a person, Michael Cox, would like to know if it is common to “know” the moment that someone passes from earth.  This is a very common thing for people that have emotional connections and bonds. For instance, you hear of a mother being on the east coast, and her child is half way across the country, and she’s awakened in the middle of the night thinking of her child, and finds out that the child was in a horrific accident.  It’s not only common to know when someone passes, but when some event happens.  The bonds are like cords running between the people, and when something happens to a person that you have that kind of strong connection to, you do feel it, hear it, or even see it.

Barbara Spano Costante has shared with a picture with what appears to be a spirit holding a hand.

Street lights going off and then coming back on, is this a spirit doing this, and is it common?  Lori Robinson Ellis, if you can factor out that the street light is not shorting, then yes, it could be a spirit.  Spirits are able to use their energy to manipulate electrical things. I’ve even heard and experienced them turning on appliance, tvs, radios, things of that nature.  Early in my psychic awareness I turned a light on in the bathroom of my home, when I went to go out and turn the light off, it wouldn’t go off.  I stood there dumbfounded for a few minutes, and listened, and was told that my gifts would be coming in stronger over the next few months.  So as to your question is it common, the resounding answer to that is yes.

Mary Sirakoulis wants to know if she has gifts, of a psychic nature?  I like to explain to people the way it has been explained to me through my spirit guides.  When God said he created man in his image, he didn’t mean in the body, a physical likeness.  He meant with a spiritual likeness, and ability. In other words, when he said, let there be light, and there was light.  We have the same type of ability.  This power has been suppressed for thousands of years.  Why you might wonder?  Well, if all people know they have the ability to manifest and create what they want in their lives then they can’t be controlled, and manipulated.  In recent times there have been people coming out and explaining this particular gift, calling it The Secret, The Law of Attraction, are good examples.  We can not only manifest things in our lives, but we have the ability to listen for guidance. You know, like when you hear that little voice that says, it’s going to rain today, even though the sun is shining and the weather man says sun all day.  Then it rains.  Or you hear, don’t take this road, it’s going to be backed up, and you take it anyway, and the road is backed up.  When you start listening to that little voice, it gets louder.  Mary, you have gifts, you need to embrace them as your own, and become in tune with your guides, and you will be surprised and excited about what they show you.

Along the same line, Kim Pelletier, wants to know if there is a way to develop the skills.  Yes, there is.  Kim as I mentioned earlier, meditation is the key.  Now, whether you call it psychic, intuitive, psychic medium, I don’t’ particular like the term “fortune teller”, too many negative connotations with that one.  It’s been called seer and prophet.  The terms are changed with the times, but you get the idea.  Another really good thing to do is sit in a development circle or group, and to take workshops.  Depending on what your local area is, you can find workshops.  Sometimes it’s fun to travel and take a whole weekend workshop.  If you have a group of friends, you create  development circle, which can be a lot of fun as well.  But never forget the your best tool is meditation.

Anniece Brown Andress has an orb, or spirit streaking through her forehead, thank you for sharing this.

Do we really have guardian angels? And if we do, is it only one, or many?  And are they family members that have passed from earth, inquires Suzette Dubois.  You’ve asked so many good ones here, Suzette.  Yes, we have guardian angels.  The way I explain this is, each of us has a team.  We have guardian angels, spirit guides, and loved ones that have passed.  Now, depending on what is going on in your life as to which one steps up for you.  They always try to guide us and show us the right direction to go in.  But we live in a free will zone, and they are forbidden from taking that away from us.  In order to “help” us with a situation, we have to ask them. Where they are allowed to step in without permission is if you are going to be in some event that causes death, and you have a purpose and the death would be untimely to meeting that purpose, they go out of their way to make sure that doesn’t happen.  Loved ones can help us, either by us calling on them, or them seeing something that is going on that you are struggling with, and they try to let you know “which door to choose”.  If a person is determined to make bad choices, they won’t interfere with that.  Sometimes the way to learn the lesson is to actually step in it to know that it really is a big pile.  So, envision that you have an entire team working for and with you, and don’t hesitate to call on them for help, guidance, and assistance, that’s after all what they are there for.

Jody Pibil has shared that there have two years sober, and recovery, would like to know what grammy feels about addiction and recovery.  First, congratulations on your two years, and thank you for sharing it with us.  Grammy is proud of you.  Now, let me speak in general about addiction and recovery.  These can be attached to life lessons to any type of addiction.  In life there seem to be some addictions that are more acceptable than others.  Each of us has something that we can be addicted to, some addictions do more harm than others.  There are those that are psychological and therefore doing psychological damage.  And of course, there are the ones that are physically addicting as well as psychological.  Alcohol, substances, cigarettes, just to name a few.  No matter what the addiction, you need to take a look at it, ask yourself, what am I supposed to be learning from this. How can I change this? There is nothing wrong with needing help, asking for support, both spiritual support from your team (as discussed in the previous paragraph), or from people that are here on earth.  But make sure when you get people to help and support, that you are getting the right ones.  Ones that enable you to keep going with the addiction aren’t necessarily the ones that can help you recover.  Learn the life lesson and then it will make recovery easier.

And I’d like to thank Cyndi Koerner for our closing picture of a beautiful sunset.

When someone passes can they see our entire lives, or just from the time of their passing? Kathy McFarland Milligan has asked a very good question.  Of course, people that pass go through their own life review, and so that encompasses people they’ve interacted with.  They can feel or know, so to speak, what it feels like to stand in the other person’s shoes in situations.  Instead of having a front linear view of what has gone on, they are able to see a 360 degree view from all angles, and how each person felt in the situations.  They gain perspective that they didn’t have when they were on earth.  They also have the ability to see things that are currently going on in their loved ones lives, and even the things that will show up in the future.  If they think they can be of some sort of help in those things, they will try to guide in the right direction, but without interfering with free-will.  And events that people believe their loved ones in heaven are missing, they are not missing, they can see them, and oftentimes show up and give signs that they are there.

As always, I’ve enjoyed answering your questions, as they can pertain to many people.  If you are interested in having a psychic reading, or a psychic medium reading, get in touch.  You can look at my website, www.heavencallingearth.com, email pam@heavencallingearth.com; or call to set up an appointment.  Until next time, I send you love and light.

Sep 30

Ask Psychic Medium Pam Jenkins Questions

By heaven | The Psychic Blog

It’s been a while, so hello.  I’ve missed you and missed writing for you.  As I’m sure you’ve guessed, it’s been pretty busy.  After putting it out there on the Heaven Calling Earth fan page on Facebook, I found that there are quite a number of questions people would like to have answered about psychic readings, and psychic medium readings and the information that has come through to me through the years.  The answers that I share here or from the years of doing readings, and through meditation.  As always, take with you what resonates, and just leave the rest.

“What are our loved ones seeing, and what are their surroundings?” Susan Mores.
Susan, this is a very good question.  The surroundings seem to change with individuals.  When they first arrive, there is usually a very bright light.  Then it would seem that our “earthly” belief system kicks in for a little while. In other words, if you have a belief that you are going to go through some pearly gates, you will see those, or if you believe there is a big meadow, then that will be your first experiences.  Then the longer one is on the other side, there is a “life” there as well, and it conforms to helping the soul grow.
“Can they hear us talking to them?” Remember, they are in the spirit realm now, so they can hear us when we speak out loud to them, and they can hear it when we think of them.  You know, like when you are having a conversation in your head.  I have people say to the effect, I’d like to make a phone call to heaven.  Well, when you have a psychic medium reading, in essence you are making a phone call to heaven.  When you set that intention in place, you are calling on your spirit guides, guardian angels and loved ones that have crossed over, and letting them know you have this planned.  I have found that in quite a large number of cases, the loved ones that have crossed over are the ones who have guided people to me in the first place. So, I would say they are well aware of your intention and desire to communicate with them.

“What signs do you look for to know if your child has psychic abilities, and how do you teach them to embrace it, versus being afraid or shutting it down?”  Freida Waugh.  A good question indeed.  First, we are all born with some degree of psychic abilities.  I call it our internal GPS.  That gut feeling, that knowing.  But there are some that are more psychic than others.  Key indicators that you are dealing with a child that is very psychic, or even psychic medium are sometimes the same types of signs that a child is an old soul.  A child that tells you a relative that has passed away before the child was born can be a sign, the child telling you they know the person, recognizes pictures of the person, or says this person comes to visit them.  Also, a child that is able to look at situations and very casually give an analysis or a solution to an issue that even an adult fails to see.  Most children do not even realize that they are seeing things (people that have crossed over) that others can’t see until they are told that the others around them don’t see what they see.  And along that same line, they don’t know to be afraid of it, unless that fear is shown to them, or taught to them in some form or fashion.  Children that grow up around people who embrace these things have it easier than children who have people telling them it’s wrong, or it’s a sin.  Then the fear factor comes in, and the shutting down.  Teaching them to meditate as young as possible is always a good thing.
“What is heaven like, is it clouds, sunshine? Do we really know what it’s like?” These questions have been asked many times and in many different ways.  The answer to this is very complex.  Is heaven in the clouds?  It is in the clouds, but it’s further away than that, and yet closer than that at the same time.  As children we all have probably thought of God and the angels sitting in the clouds.  We’ve all looked the clouds and seen different shapes of things, and at some point it has been a message for us.  There is the spirit realm that co-exists with us, but in a different dimension, if you will.  But there’s also the spiritual realm that’s out in the Universe and the heavens that’s out there beyond the clouds.   A statement that I was given one night while laying and contemplating, It’s everywhere and yet it’s nowhere, it’s beside us, and yet a million miles away.  We are given answers like this because in our human language there are not words to completely and totally describe it in its entirety.
“What age are people that are in heaven?” Lone Vinding Malast.  In the psychic readings and psychic medium readings that I have done for people, the loved ones come across as the age they were when the left this earth so that their family and friends will recognize them.  We have bodies on earth, and they show themselves in these bodies (suit of clothes) when communicating with me.  That’s merely to allow themselves to be recognized.  Also another element that is used is their personalities, their likes and dislikes.  The soul age is a different matter than the physical age that is on earth.  There are times when a person will feel as though a younger age of themselves would be more recognizable so they will come in that age.  But in heaven or the spirit realm we have no need for a physical body, that’s an earth thing.
“Nana said 3:33, 12:12, and 1:11 means an ancestor is with you.” Kathy Mallory.  This may well be the case.  I don’t argue over a person’s beliefs, because it is their truth, which is taught to them in their culture.  Different cultures mean there are different meanings to things.  I do know that seeing numbers in repetition also means there is a synchronicity that is happening.  Our relatives and ancestors do visit, and they do so more often than most people think.
And to finish off the edition of the blog, I give you an image of the word Believe.  “What signs do we look for?” as asked by Kellie Wilkins-Dorn.  Our loved ones give us many different kinds of signs.  They are able to manipulate energy, because we are energy.  Light bulbs flickering on and off, or burning out.  Causing a certain song to be played on the radio or tv.  They can make us feel a physical touch somewhere on our body.  Another one that they use frequently is our sense of smell.  You will smell a cologne, or cigarette smoke, or a particular type of tobacco that no one uses, except the loved one in heaven.  These are just a few of the signs that are used.  I encourage to you acknowledge your loved one’s presence.  By doing so they know you’re paying attention and will give you more.  Always remember, life doesn’t end with death on earth, it just means it’s beginning again in another dimension that we call heaven.  
If you’re interested in booking an appointment for a reading, whether that is a psychic reading, or a psychic medium reading, you can contact me through email, pam@heavencallingearth.com, visit the website, www.heavencallingearth.com.  Don’t forget to follow us on Facebook, and Twitter. 
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